You should try contra dancing

In a viral LessWrong post, author benkuhn argues that contra dancing is an ideal atelic activity—something done for its own sake—especially in a hypothetical post-AGI world where no one needs to work. He contrasts it with other dances that require weeks of lessons before social participation, noting that contra offers a 30-minute beginner lesson that often leads to a fun evening. The dance's easy entry point shapes its inclusive community, which benkuhn describes as having among the best vibes of any activity he's tried. He shares a personal story of initial reluctance, a disastrous first dance, and eventual transformation into a regular participant, with about 1 in 10 newcomers becoming deeply involved.

Mechanically, contra dancing involves lines of couples performing choreographed moves with a caller guiding them, but benkuhn emphasizes the essence over mechanics: it provides physical joy and social connection in a low-pressure environment. He contrasts it with the awkwardness of middle school dances and the high barrier to entry for partner dances like swing or tango. The post has resonated widely, sparking discussions about meaningful leisure in an automated future and the value of community-oriented activities. Benkuhn's pitch is that contra dancing offers a rare combination of accessibility, fun, and deep human connection, making it a standout choice for anyone exploring how to spend their time when work is no longer a necessity.